MOUNTAIN HOME AIR FORCE BASE, Idaho (KMVT/KSVT) — When you ask a military child about their upbringing, their response may resemble that of any other child.
First-grade student Cara Neer describes it as “chaotic,” highlighting the unique experiences that come with being part of a military family. On the other hand, third-grade student Caleb Neer finds the aspect of moving around the country or even the world quite exciting, mentioning, “It’s kinda fun because you sometimes get to move around a lot.”
However, frequent relocations present their own set of challenges, particularly as these children grow older. Starting anew and constantly adapting to new environments can be daunting, a reality that may not be fully grasped by those outside the military community.
Ninth-grade student Jon Eichman sheds light on the difficulties, expressing, “I’d like more people to know it’s a little bit harder than I feel like a lot of teens really understand. Just like moving around so much. Yes, you get to see new people and places, but it’s really hard for a lot of people; it’s really hard to be there when you’re new and you just got to move a year later.”
In times of transition, schools and fellow military children often serve as pillars of support.
Seventh-grade student Eva Clement emphasizes the importance of empathy, noting, “You never know what they could be going through, or they may be moving one day or they may have to leave their friends. Their military friends might be leaving, and then, positively, we get to explore new places and stuff.”
Teachers play a crucial role in nurturing these children, offering not just academic guidance but also emotional support.
Cara shares, “Sometimes I go to teachers to talk about it, and that’s how they support me.”
Eichman acknowledges the significant impact of teachers, referring to them as a backbone for military families. He appreciates their kindness and the reassuring presence they provide.
Military counselors also play a vital role, offering a safe space for these children to express themselves and seek guidance during challenging times.
Clement reflects on the invaluable support provided by military counselors, stating, “Always helping out and not making it very difficult and stressful for me, especially when something is going on like my dad’s deployed. With my military counselor, she’s always there to talk to me, and I can always be very honest with her.”
Communities can also extend their support to these families by offering practical assistance, such as helping with unpacking or providing a warm meal. Simple gestures like greeting them warmly can make a significant difference in easing their transition.
Eichman underscores the importance of community support, emphasizing, “I feel like it’s very, very important for everyone to be supportive of these people because they’re kids; they are very sensitive. Just a lot of emotions are running around, and it’s just nice to have a little bit of fallback.”
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