One day, around the age of 4, Riley Strain, adorned in green attire, engaged in conversation with a friend of his mother’s who complimented his appearance. In response, young Strain confidently remarked that green suited him well.
This sentiment resonated deeply as friends and family gathered to commemorate the life of Riley Strain, a beloved University of Missouri student and Kickapoo High School graduate, by donning green attire. The somber occasion at Greenlawn Funeral Home East in Springfield drew a significant crowd, with a line forming to offer condolences to the grieving family, amidst an already overflowing parking lot.
The 22-year-old Strain went missing during a trip to Nashville with his Delta Chi fraternity brothers in early March. Following an unfortunate separation from the group after being ejected from a Broadway bar, he failed to return to the hotel. The subsequent search efforts encompassed the downtown Nashville area and the Cumberland River, culminating in the discovery of Strain’s lifeless body 8 miles away from downtown in west Nashville on March 22. The circumstances surrounding Strain’s untimely demise remain under investigation.
During the memorial service, Joseph Cockell, a close friend and former teammate, reminisced about shared moments with Strain, recalling pre-game rituals and carefree lake excursions. Cockell fondly shared the invaluable lesson imparted by Strain—to embrace the present moment without overthinking—a sentiment echoed by many who knew him.
Another attendee, Anthony Kristensen, reflected on his college friendship with Strain, highlighting the infectious positivity and jovial nature that defined their interactions. The overwhelming turnout at the celebration of life underscored the profound impact Strain had on his community, leaving an indelible mark on all who crossed his path.
A fellow University of Missouri alum, Kristensen expressed the indescribable anguish of learning about a friend’s disappearance and the subsequent emotional turmoil. Despite the heart-wrenching circumstances, he remains hopeful for a positive resolution, cherishing the memories of their time together.
A dedicated student majoring in business and financial planning, Strain had secured an internship with Northwestern Mutual, showcasing his commitment to professional growth. His altruistic endeavors were recognized with the prestigious Presidential Medal for Volunteering from the Wonders of Wildlife in Springfield, honoring his selfless contribution of over 500 hours.
Known for his passion for the outdoors, Strain found solace in activities like hunting, fishing, and lakeside retreats. His competitive spirit shone through in tennis matches and his newfound interest in Jiujitsu, while his culinary skills were celebrated during gatherings where he showcased his expertise in grilling and hosting fish fries.
Riley Strain is survived by his parents, Michelle and Chris Whiteid, and Ryan and Milli Gilbert, along with siblings Brooke Dunbar and Brock Hale, and loving grandparents Rosa Lee Strain, Wayne and Eilene Whiteid, Debra Gilbert, Robert and A.J. Gilbert, and Clarence and Rosie Graves.