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Hey everyone, Doug Baker here, Wendy’s youngest son. Mom used to take us to Europe during our winter school breaks (such as Paris, above) when I was growing up. Now, I’m a college sophomore, and when my friends talk about where we should go for March break, I tell them Europe—and not just to avoid the summer rush.
Europe feels more authentic to me in winter. It’s easier to be part of the local scene. The weather might be colder and the days shorter, but there are so many fun activities, opportunities, and foods that are totally different from what you will find in summer.
Ice skating rink in front of Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam. Photo: Doug Baker
In winter, I’ve ice-skated on rinks from little town squares in Brussels and Bratislava to the Grand Palais in Paris and the Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam (above). It’s a great way to meet local people! In winter, I’ve tried hot chocolate as thick and rich as a melted chocolate bar everywhere from Demel in Vienna to the ski slopes of Spain, and street food such as piping-hot kürtőskalács in Budapest, schupfnudeln in Germany, and this in Salzburg:
Doug at a pretzel and sweets shop in Salzburg, Austria. Photo: Tim Baker
In winter, you must spend more time indoors, but museums and castles are more fun when you have them to yourself. I was able to do a scavenger hunt with my brother inside the Centre Pompidou in Paris that took us through every floor of the museum, and in Bratislava there was nobody in the ancient church, so I was able to play one of the world’s oldest pipe organs.
Most of all, people are much nicer to you in winter because the tourist crowds aren’t there to annoy them. It is much easier to have conversations and build connections with the local people. One more thing I tell my college friends when they suggest the stereotypical spring-break spots (and maybe I shouldn’t share this with their parents): The drinking age is 18 in Europe!
You’ll find more—and more serious—reasons to experience Europe in winter in the traveler reviews below. First up: A 19- and 16-year-old get educated in Eastern Europe about the Holocaust and Ukraine.
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Eastern Europe: “Making pierogi with Marta in her home…she told us how she housed eight Ukrainians for two months at the onset of the war…”
The Nury family learn how to make pierogi. Photo: Traveler Doug Nury
“The current state of our world is disheartening. Our March 2023 travels (arranged by a Wendy Perrin WOW List agent) took us to Israel as tourists, never imagining that seven months later, Israel would be at war with Gaza. Since October 7, our family regularly discusses the conversations we had with our two tour guides, Daphne (Israel) and Isla (West Bank) about the conflict and how both of them want a peaceful but fair solution. Through our vast international travel experiences, our family has learned to seek as many perspectives as possible, particularly from non-US citizens on domestic and international issues. As a result, we jumped at the opportunity for Gwen to plan an Eastern European trip over Christmas, not only to enjoy the Christmas traditions and markets, but also to hear the views of Europeans very close to the Ukrainian/Russian conflict.
Gwen’s tour guides were the best part of our trip. During our first four days in Budapest, Julia explained to us the devastating history of the Jewish population and how close to 500,000 citizens were murdered during WWII. She also arranged an enjoyable boat tour (the boat had heat!) on the chilly Danube, pointing out architectural landmarks on the Buda and Pest side, while cruising on the river.
Kate and Will Nury peek out of a secret stairwell in Prague’s Strahov Monastery. Photo: Traveler Beth Nury
In Prague, our guide Christina spent the rainy morning with us inside the Strahov Monastery, an active monastery that houses the largest collection of Bibles in the world, and gave us a VIP tour of its two main halls, the Philosophical and Theological halls. In Poland, we toured Auschwitz privately with Wojtek Smolen, a tour guide with over 30 years of experience who had two family members imprisoned at the concentration camp. His narration and walking tour of Auschwitz and Birkenau was fact-based, with no political slant. The things I saw that day—the massive size and scope of the concentration camp, the vast piles of victims’ strands of hair, abandoned shoes and suitcases on display—will forever be tattooed on my brain.
Following Auschwitz, we drove back to Krakow and met Julie at the Krakow History Museum, which is located at Oscar Schindler’s factory, for a tour of Krakow before, during and after the Nazi occupation. The museum is well done and definitely worth visiting. Our final day in Krakow was spent making pierogi with Marta in her home. While rolling out dough, adding the fillings and pinching the pierogi before dropping it into the boiling water, she told us how she housed eight Ukrainians for two months at the onset of the war and is concerned about the conflict due to the proximity of Poland to Ukraine.
My husband and I hope that this trip punctuated the importance of visiting historical relics and learning from experts at the site about past events instead of watching a YouTube video for our teenagers (ages 19 and 16). It’s also essential to engage with people worldwide to gain insight on their perspective of US leadership and diplomacy.” —Beth Nury
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NORWAY & COPENHAGEN: “We got to see the Christmas lights in Tivoli Gardens and took a ride on a wild roller coaster, wandered with some hot drinks…”
Kate Ogg and son Will see the northern lights from the driveway of their lodge in Alta, Norway. Photo: Traveler Ryan Ogg
“My husband, Ryan Ogg and I (Kate Ogg), and our three children, Will (17), Charlotte (15), and Wyatt (12), went to Copenhagen, Denmark, and Oslo and Alta, Norway, from December 28 through January 6. Will is graduating from high school this spring, and so we let him choose the destination for a family vacation this year. He wanted to go someplace cold, snowy and dark, where we could do some fun outdoor adventures, and hopefully see the Northern Lights (which we had tried and failed to do in Iceland a couple of years ago).
It was a fantastic trip. Copenhagen was still pretty magical the week between Christmas and New Year’s, and we found some good restaurants despite a few of the ones we had hoped for being closed. We got to see the Christmas lights in Tivoli Gardens and took a ride on a wild roller coaster, wandered with some hot drinks, shopped and just enjoyed the festive vibe. The next day we started the day with a boat ride through the harbor and some of the bigger canals, which gave us a sense of the city’s geography as well as a lot of the architecture.
Oslo was all closed while we were there because it was both Sunday and New Year’s Eve, but a walk through the sculpture garden, to the Fram museum to see a polar expedition ship, and a chance to see the Nobel buildings and then along the harbor was a nice way to spend the day before a fancy dinner at our hotel (The Thief) and a midnight toast on the roof. On New Year’s morning in a snowstorm, we made it to Oslo airport and up to dark Alta. The Sorrisniva Hotel was fully booked by the time we planned our trip (August), so we stayed in a little fishing lodge in the woods, down the driveway from Tristin and Trine Restaurant and past some sled dogs.
It was absolutely charming, and best of all, the very first night as we walked out of our lodge to dinner, the sky lit up with northern lights that continued to brighten and dance until we gave up and went to bed. I credit our very dark spot in the woods for the fantastic viewing. Our adventures in snowmobiling, reindeer sledding, snowshoeing, and king crab fishing all showed us different parts of the landscape and culture in northern Norway, and it was just…magical. We truly loved it.” —Kate Ogg
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Paris: “A trip fit for royalty…”
The Louvre Museum at night, Paris. Photo: EdiNugraha/Pixabay
“We had three weeks to plan a Paris trip with our adult children after our Israel trip was canceled. Jennifer, a WOW planner through Wendy Perrin, created a trip fit for royalty. We stayed in a gorgeous, boutique hotel in the Marais district and had private car and tour guides for the Louvre, Versailles, Chateau, Jewish and History Tours. We saw the Eiffel Tower with a private tour, the Dior Exhibit at the Foundation Giacometti, we had an amazing time.
Our WOW Moment started with a car picking us up at noon, taking us to an unknown destination which was a fabulous restaurant, Shabour. The owner told us that since we couldn’t go to Israel, this was a Jerusalem-Paris dining experience. We sat at the bar to watch the chefs prepare a delicious, fun, memorable lunch. It was awesome.
We had a concierge service at the airport on both ends, making it easy to maneuver. I can’t say enough about Jennifer and her staff who gave us a perfect trip in such a short period of time. We have traveled the world with Wendy Perrin’s WOW List. It is the best way and the only way we travel.” —Adrienne Goldberg
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Austria & Czech Republic: “The cathedral tour was incredible! We were on the roof walking along the outside perimeter and inside the ceiling about the nave…”
Roof of St. Stephen’s Cathedral in Vienna captured from above. Photo: Julius Silver
“Gwen planned a wonderful Christmas week in Vienna, Bratislava and Prague. Both hotels—the Sans Souci in Vienna and the Andaz in Prague—were great choices. Both were near the center but in a quieter area. The rooms, staff and breakfasts were lovely.
Our private guided walking tour of Vienna was enjoyable. The cathedral tour was incredible! We were on the roof walking along the outside perimeter and inside the ceiling about the nave. A truly interesting and unique experience. The food tour was fun and enjoyable: We went to five different locations and got to sample different Viennese specialties. We enjoyed the outstanding museums and lovely shopping streets. We loved the tour of the magnificent Schönbrunn Palace. Another day we took a train to Bratislava and were met on the platform by the guide who showed us this interesting city.
The train to Prague was easy. We walked everywhere in Prague—Old Town, Jewish Quarter, Charles Bridge, Wenceslas Square. The Strahov Monastery library and Prague Castle complex were impressive. We were so lucky that the line to the remarkable St. Vitus Cathedral was quick and we got to see it. The Lobkowicz Palace is a treasure—we could have spent hours there.
Gwen suggested terrific restaurants, including two outstanding meals at Michelin-starred restaurants Field and La Degustation in Prague. It was a wonderful vacation—the days spent in each location were just right.” —Susan Sullivan
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Portugal: “Sitting on the patio watching the sunset over the ocean was the perfect end to the trip…”
A winter day with clear blue skies at Praia de Ribeira, Ericeira. Photo: Shutterstock
“Goncalo and Sofia created an itinerary that was perfect for our family. And, they gave us a trip that we will always remember! Some highlights…
The hotels were AMAZING!! We typically stay at the same hotel chain when we travel and were so grateful for their suggestion of boutique hotels. Not only did they provide our family plenty of space, but they each felt warm and welcoming every time we walked into the room. My daughters LOVED the set-up and decor of The Lumiares hotel in Lisbon, stating they never wanted to leave. The Rebello’s views of Porto were breathtaking (unless the fog rolled in) and the access to an incredible running path along the water made it the perfect place for us to stay. Our final hotel stay at the Immerso was exactly what we needed after a very busy trip. Sitting on the patio watching the sunset over the ocean was the perfect end to the trip; we only wish we had a few days to explore the area. : )
The guides they found for us were exceptional!! The tours provided us with interesting historical and present-day content. They were all engaging and ready to shape the tours to match our family. Tiago, in particular, was amazing!! The tour of Sintra could have been a disaster due to the weather, and he made it one of the most fun with his depth of knowledge and witty humor! For a family who loves to travel, Goncalo could not have put together a more perfect trip for us.” —Shannon Jones
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Spain: “Traveling in January was surprisingly ideal! There were no crowds and the weather was comfortable…”
Placa Reial on a winter evening in Barcelona, Spain. Photo: Shutterstock
“We just returned from an amazing winter vacation in Barcelona and Lisbon. We traveled with our 2 college-aged kids and wanted to make sure they were as excited about the itinerary as we were. Luis and Silvia did a terrific job balancing all of our needs and interests.
Traveling in January was surprisingly ideal! There were no crowds and the weather was comfortable. We were able to see all of the popular sites without lines or overcrowding. Our favorite parts, however, were more off-the-beaten-path excursions. Silvia arranged for Alex, our tour guide through the Catalan neighborhoods, to cook paella and drink vermouth with him and his mother Lourdes in a flat with a rooftop deck. This was a highlight of the trip.
In addition to sightseeing and immersing ourselves in the culture, we were interested in recommendations for restaurants, nightlife, and vintage stores. Silvia provided detailed recommendations for each and arranged nightly restaurant reservations. Our favorite meal, a 17-course tasting at the Michelin-star Loco in Lisbon, was a very special night!” —Lisa Powers
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In the height of the winter season, lovers come together to celebrate the most cherished in their lives. For some, Valentine’s Day is a romantic opportunity to declare their love, but for others – it’s just another frigid day in the middle of winter. No matter your relationship status, Valentine’s Day is about coming together to celebrate the most cherished people in our lives. Instead of jewelry or chocolates, commemorate your love and make lasting memories together on a romantic getaway.
Here are 5 of our favorite romantic escapes to consider this Valentine’s Day…
Hamilton, Bermuda

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“Take my hand, we’re going on an adventure.”
Trade in a wintery mix for turquoise Bermuda water. There’s nothing like flying to the island and seeing the bright aquamarine ocean below. Bermuda is a small archipelago set in the middle of the Atlantic. Despite it being a tropical paradise, Bermuda is actually 900 miles away from the Caribbean, but only 600 miles from the Southern shores of North Carolina, making it quite easy to reach if flying from the East Coast.

Michael and Matt at the Hamilton Princess in Bermuda.
The islands are known for their pink-sand beaches. Horseshoe Bay is arguably the most popular and frequented beach by visitors to Bermuda, but much of the southern coast is lined with hidden gems.
Just up from Horseshoe Bay are the less crowded Hidden Beach, Angle Beach, Jobson’s Cove. Warwick Long Bay provides plenty of space to spread out on the sand, and Elbow Beach is well known for snorkeling to view the sunken ship just beyond the shore.
There are many resorts and luxurious hotels to stay across the main island, however, the Hamilton Princess and Beach Club holds a romantic flair. Much like the beaches, the Hamilton Princess’s pink color provides a beautifully unique backdrop perfect for Valentine’s Day selfies.
The Fairmont Managed Hotel is only steps away from downtown Hamilton and Bermuda’s Bacardi Headquarters. The resort is conveniently located around the corner from boutique shopping, restaurants, and all the nightlife that Hamilton has to offer. Plus, the private Beach Club at Sinky Bay is quite the perk!

Pacific Coast (Oregon Coast)

Michael and Matt on the Oregon Coast
I may be biased coming from Oregon, however I do believe that the Oregon Coast provides quite the romantic escape during the colder months. Cozy up at a beachside hotel, light the fireplace, and enjoy watching the waves crash along the shore.

Haystack Rock at Cannon Beach at sunset.
The Oregon coast is home to dramatic cliffs, thick pine forests, and tons of great seafood. Haystack Rock at Cannon Beach is an iconic figure that towers over the tidepools. Understandably, you have to stop there for the classic Haystack Rock photo, but afterwards, keep exploring Cannon Beach’s historic downtown and then make a stop at Pelican Brewing for fish tacos, fresh salmon, and a pint of Pelican’s Updrift IPA.

Lunch on the Oregon Coast.
Likewise, cruise down the 101 to Newport and try Rogue Ales and Spirits halibut fish and chips. Extra crunchy, with hints of curry, it’s a dish that warms the soul. For some of the best clam chowder along the Oregon Coast, make a stop at The Chowder Bowl in Newport.
Many times when visiting the Oregon Coast, I find a rental property with beach access, however if I’m looking to pamper myself, I recommend staying at Headlands Coastal Lodge and Spa. Set at the base of Cape Kiwanda in Pacific City, Headlands combines cozy and luxury. Besides treating yourself at their Tidepool’s Spa, they’ll even set up a beach bonfire for you, with blankets and supplies for s’mores. It’s a dream come true.

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Palm Springs, California

We’re big fans of Palm Springs.
For sunny skies and gay vibes, look no further than Palm Springs. This is one of my favorite places to escape to during the winter months, and for obvious reasons, it’s like flying into summer!

Palm Springs Pride. Photo by GayCities.
If you’re looking for a fun night out, head to Arenas Road for Palm Springs’ most popular gay bars. Hop from QUADZ, to Chill Bar, Hunter’s, Dick’s, and Tryst Bar and Lounge. Located all within the same block, the area really provides for a great time.
For an all-male gay resort, check-in to Twin Palms Resort. Another iconic accommodation is Trixie Motel, owned by Trixie Mattel herself. For something more sleek and modern, the Ace Hotel on the southern end of town is a great place to relax and unwind.

Edinburgh, Scotland

Michael and Matt in Edinburgh, Scotland.
I know what you’re thinking, Scotland, in the winter? Really!? And the short answer is a resounding YES! Especially for Londoners who want a last minute Valentine’s Day escape. Cobblestone streets lined with a dusting of snow, bustling coffee shops, and warm bookstores, Edinburgh is a wintery wonderland that tempts architecture lovers and foodies alike.

Walking along charming Scottish streets.

Wine and dine through the city, as it’s home to some of the most opulent and luxurious dining experiences in the UK. Our favorite, The Lookout by Gardener’s Cottage. Perched at the top of Calton Hill, The Lookout offers a full view of the city along with a brilliant seasonal tasting menu. Take a stroll down high street and get lost in the many alleyways branching off of the historic thoroughfare.

The Scotch Whiskey Experience
Make a stop at The Scotch Whiskey Experience and cuddle up over a taste of Scotland’s finest. This stop is sure to warm up your Valentine’s Day, even if there’s snow on the ground.
Edinburgh is full of surprises, but my favorite neighborhood to explore is Dean Village. This neighborhood village alongside Water of Leith is reminiscent of a fairytale. Whether covered in snow or glistening with rain, it’s the perfect place for photos or just simply admiring the view.
To treat someone special, get a room at The Balmoral. This luxurious 5-star property is located in the heart of Edinburgh. Situated on Princes Street, the hotel offers breathtaking views of the city’s iconic castle and the surrounding landscape. Alternatively, enjoying high-tea at Palm Court within The Balmoral is an experience worth the visit in and of itself.

Key West, Florida

Michael and Matt in Key West, Florida.
Last but certainly not least, if you’re looking for a tropical Valentine’s Day getaway that’s still stateside, Key West, Florida is the place for you. This is truly where the Caribbean meets the United States. Gorgeous palm-lined beaches, a bustling nightlife, and a mecca for LGBTQ+ culture.

Caribbean vibes, no passport required.
Starting with coffee and Cuban sandwiches, the Cuban Coffee Queen off of Duval Street is to die for. Whether for a midday snack or a quick lunch, trying a Cuban sandwich or their cold brew is a must.
Continuing down Duval Street, Key West’s main drag, Mangoes is a cute restaurant with plenty of outdoor seating that’s a great place for drag brunch. For a night out, head to 801 Bourbon Bar, the Bourbon Street Pub, and Aqua NightClub.
One of the most romantic things you could do while visiting Key West that is sure to make a lasting impression is to make a reservation at Latitudes at Sunset Key Cottages. Aptly named, it’s also the best place to watch the sunset.
Taking a boat from Sunset Key’s sister property, Opal Key Resort and Marina, enjoy the short ride as you take in the amazing view of the keys over crystalline waters.

“Gorgeous. And the view is nice, too.”

Whether you’re embracing the cold or chasing the sun, I hope these 5 romantic winter escapes inspire you to travel somewhere new this Valentine’s Day. And if you aren’t already taking your special someone with you, perhaps you’ll meet someone flying solo too!

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Lawmakers are considering making it easier for counties to do away with short-term rentals altogether.

Hawaii lawmakers have tried and failed to pass legislation reining in short-term vacation rentals in the past, but this session feels different, says Sen. Jarrett Keohokalole, chairman of the Senate Commerce and Consumer Protection Committee. 

Keohokalole has authored an ambitious bill that would reshape the way short-term vacation rentals are regulated in Hawaii – and give counties power to phase them out completely over time. 

Critics of short-term vacation rentals now include Lahaina Strong, which has organized protests at Maui’s Kaanapali Beach, calling for “more dignified” housing options for Lahaina residents whose homes burned down in the Aug. 8 wildfire. (Brittany Lyte/Civil Beat/2023)

Keohokalole’s optimism is hardly political salesmanship. Opposition to short-term vacation rentals is more vocal than ever. And it’s coming from far beyond Keohokalole’s windward Oahu district, where residents for years have complained that a tide of Airbnbs has transformed places like Kailua into mini resorts.

Gov. Josh Green described short-term rentals as a problem in his State of the State speech. Maui residents have held high-profile protests for a moratorium on short-term rentals, which Keohokalole’s bill would essentially enable counties to impose. The Hawaii Island County Council is considering its own ban. On Oahu, the Honolulu City Council is regrouping after a court challenge striking down Oahu’s attempts to close a loophole in its land-use ordinance regulating short-term rentals.

“To hear it in the State of the State Speech is different,” Keohokalole said in an interview. “This year is different because it is a byproduct of the crisis on Maui.”

Sen. Jarrett Keohokalole is renewing efforts to rein in short-term vacation rentals. “This year is different,” he says. (Cory Lum/Civil Beat/2022)

Currently, 5.5% or 30,000 of Hawaii’s 557,000 total housing units operate as short-term rentals, according to the University of Hawaii Economic Research Organization’s “Hawaii Housing Factbook,” published in June.

On some islands the percentages are much greater. On Oahu, the short-term rentals made up about 2% of the island’s housing supply; by contrast, Maui’s short-term market represented roughly 15% of the supply, UHERO reported. 

UHERO estimated the presence of short-term vacation rentals in Honolulu raises housing costs by roughly 5%. 

Green alluded to this situation in his State of the State speech in January. After discussing the housing crisis the August wildfires created on Maui, Green spoke about the state’s broader shortage of affordable housing.

“Our state is such a desirable destination, and such a profitable investment for many, that people from around the world have purchased property to hold as investments or rent as short-term rentals to visitors — making on average four times what they would if the property was simply rented to a local family,” Green said. “Right now, 52% of all short-term rentals in Hawaii are owned by non-state residents, and 27% of short-term rental owners own 20 or more units.” 

On Friday, Keohokalole will discuss short-term housing issues in a joint committee hearing. His co-chairs are Maui Sen. Lynn Decoite, who chairs the Energy, Economic Development and Tourism Committee, and Sen. Glenn Wakai, chairman of the Public Safety and Intergovernmental and Military Affairs Committee. The only item on the agenda is the short-term rental bill.

The battle lines forming are largely the same as those of past years. On one side are companies like Airbnb, property owners who use the platforms to rent out homes and condos to tourists and an ecosystem of real estate agents and small businesses that support the owners and platforms. 

One the other side are hotel industry executives and lobbyists, housing advocates and individuals and groups that want to limit tourist accommodations to places designated for tourism. Joining the push this year are groups like Lahaina Strong, which has been leading a protest called “Fishing for Housing” at West Maui’s Kaanapali Beach. The Hawaii Association of Counties has submitted testimony supporting Keohokalole’s measure. 

Demonstrators in the past have rallied against the Honolulu City Council’s attempts to limit short-term vacation rentals on Oahu. Bills in the Legislature this year could allow the rentals to be phased out completely. (Cory Lum/Civil Beat/2022)

Honolulu City Council Chairman Tommy Waters said it was critical to give the counties tools needed to manage the rentals. 

“Reining in the preponderance of temporary vacation rentals statewide, investing in infrastructure, and continuing to invest in the development and refurbishment of affordable housing at the state and county levels are all critical components in solving our state’s affordable housing crisis,” he wrote in testimony submitted this week. 

Keohokalole agrees. In an interview, the senator was outspoken about a recent order by U.S. District Judge Derrick Watson striking down a Honolulu ordinance designed to close off loophole in the county’s land-use ordinance. Although Honolulu’s land-use ordinance bans short-term vacation rentals in most areas outside of certain resort zones, including parts of Waikiki and Koolina, the ordinance allows renting short-term to tourists, as long as owners host no more than 12 rentals per year. 

Keohokalole said Watson was wrong to say such 30-day rentals to visitors were residential and not commercial uses. 

“To say a 30-day use is not a commercial use is just ridiculous,” Keohokalole said.

County Zoning Power Comes From State

Zoning law can be complicated, but it rests on a simple idea: state and local governments have the power to regulate land use to promote public interests – specifically to protect public health, safety, welfare and morals. 

In Hawaii, the state grants counties broad zoning powers by statute. The counties can then pass ordinances regulating zoning and land use. 

The statute generally restricts the counties from passing ordinances that would suddenly prohibit a certain land use that was legal at the time the ordinance was passed. But there’s a big exception: the statute also allows the counties to pass ordinances discontinuing particular land uses – as long as the uses are phased out “over a reasonable period of time.” 

However, there’s also an exception to the exception: residential uses can’t be phased out.

Keohokalole’s bill amends the statute to explicitly allow the counties a to phase out resdential uses, and, by extension, short-term rentals.

“If we’re really going to be serious about this, then the counties should have the authority,” he said.

Airbnb Lawyer, Former Hawaii Attorney General, Opposes Bill

Already the concept is getting opposition. A similar House bill passed out of the House Housing Committee on Wednesday, despite pushback from the powerful Hawaii Association of Realtors and the Lahaina-based Rental By Owners Awareness Association.

“This Bill is not to stop illegally operating short-term rentals — this Bill goes after operators who are in full compliance of the law, operating legally within their particular location, either by their nonconforming use certificate or by being legally entitled to operate by zone,” the association’s president, Alicia Humiston, said in her testimony. 

The Business Registration Division of the Hawaii Department of Commerce and Consumer Affairs says it’s not equipped to regulate short term rentals. (Cory Lum/Civil Beat/2022)

Also testifying against the House measure was Airbnb’s long-time Hawaii attorney David Louie, the state’s former attorney general. Louie declined an interview request, saying he didn’t have Airbnb’s permission. But Louie’s written testimony asserted that the measure could lead to “substantial litigation.”

“Although this may appear to be an innocuous delegation of authority, the proposed changes implanted would conflict with existing constitutional rights that have been explicitly recognized by courts in the State of Hawaii,” Louie wrote. “Such changes would potentially cause numerous unintended consequences, which could ultimately lead to a deprivation of vested rights of existing, residential homeowners.”

Others disagree.

David Callies is a retired law professor and author of “Regulating Paradise,” a treatise on Hawaii land-use law. He is also co-author of a law school textbook on national land-use law and recipient of a lifetime achievement award from an organization that assists property owners in disputes with governments. 

According to Callies, governments generally have the right to phase out land uses through zoning changes – called amortization in legal parlance – and that five years is typically a reasonable time frame for doing so. Callies said the counties would need to be careful to avoid potential legal issues when drafting and passing ordinances. 

But he said, “It’s pretty settled doctrine that you can amortize a non-conforming use.”

Callies also said prohibiting short-term rentals wouldn’t be considered a taking of private property, in violation of constitutional rights, because the properties still could be used for housing by the owners or rented out long term.

“You are not going to be able to argue any total taking by regulation,” he said. 

While Callies acknowledged owners might be able to argue the zoning change amounted to a partial taking, he said, “Winning a partial takings case is very difficult.”

Keohokalole’s bill goes beyond allowing the counties to phase out short term rentals. It also establishes a regulatory scheme under the Business Registration Division of the Department of Commerce and Consumer Affairs. Ty Nohara, who heads the division, testified that even with additional funding, the division wasn’t equipped to handle the task of regulating thousands of rentals.

Instead, Nohara suggested such regulation would better be handled by an agency “that will have as its sole focus the responsibility to regulate and enforce short-term rentals in Hawaii.”

Kekoa McClellan, a spokesman for the American Hotel and Lodging Association, acknowledged a regulatory system would require money. But, he said, “What’s the cost of not doing this?”

“The people who are paying the price are kamaaina families who are leaving the islands in droves,” he said.

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